
Love. That is a tall command, only I never used to realize exactly how hard loving people is. The closer Jesus has drawn me to Himself, the more He has asked me to love—and it’s not been easy.
Why is it so hard to love? Because, as I read somewhere, you can’t love without giving. Love requires sacrifice. Love requires putting others before ourselves. Love requires unselfishness, because love has no room for itself. For the first few years after my high school graduation, the theme of what God was teaching me was to love. Love when it’s easy, love when it’s hard. Love the fun people, love the not-so-fun people.
In my job (I work at a fast food restaurant), I run into all kinds of people. I work with all kinds of people, I meet all kinds of people, I serve all kinds of people. People who are fun, enjoyable, those whom I look forward to seeing—but also people who are grumpy, annoying, rude, and hard to get along with.
I am required to be nice, as part of my job description—to smile, to welcome people cheerfully, to wish them a good day when they leave. This is done to everybody, whether we hope they come back soon…or not.
When I first started working five years ago, I was surprised at how easy it is to take things personally. While we have a lot of regulars, most people come in and we don’t recognize them or they us. At times I doubt they even see us as people—and when the guests are rude and mean, that is when loving is tough. I am supposed to cheerfully serve those people, too. Love is not complaining about the situation later. Love is praying for that person: “Lord, bless their day. Draw them to Yourself!” Love is truly meaning that smile I give them.
Love is still wishing the lady who laughed at my mistake “a good day.” Love is cheerfully taking an order and conversing with the guest who, on his last visit, was very rude. Love is being nice to the people who get labeled as “weird.” Love is, I have to admit to myself, not seeing those people as weird! Love is loving those people who seemingly do not “deserve” it, but it was Jesus Himself who said, “if you only love those who love you, what credit is that?” Love is seeing every person—guests, fellow employees, my family, individuals at church, the people walking down the street—as somebody who needs a smile, the love of Jesus, and someone to be kind to them. No matter what…because that is what love really is.